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🌱 "I Wish I Had Known Him Sooner" — A Letter to the Mama Just Starting Her Faith Journey

June 14, 20252 min read

Three years ago, I gave my heart to Jesus.
And even now, I often whisper,
“I wish I had known Him sooner.”

My daughter is 16.
And sometimes, I look back on the early years — the mistakes, the missed moments, the things I wish I could do over.
I wonder:
If I had known God’s truth back then… would I have raised her differently?

But here’s what the Father is gently teaching me:

“I make all things new. I chose you to be her mom — knowing everything. And I’m not finished.”
(Isaiah 43:19 | Philippians 1:6)

💛 From Regret to Redemption: Parenting with Purpose

I’m not sharing this from a place of shame — but from a place of hope.
Because maybe you’re just beginning.
Maybe you’re wondering if it’s too late.
Friend, it’s not.
You’re not late. You’re chosen.

God is faithful to finish what He starts.

🔍 Discovering Your Child’s God-Given Gift

Every child is born with a spiritual gift — one of the seven in Romans 12:

  • Prophet

  • Servant

  • Teacher

  • Exhorter

  • Giver

  • Ruler

  • Mercy

That gift was woven into them in the womb.
Even when we didn’t know how to see it.
Even when we were still figuring things out.

Now, I’m learning to:

  • Notice it

  • Call it out

  • Pray over it

🛡 Raising Kingdom Warriors, Not Just Kids

We’re not just raising children.
We’re uncovering destinies.
We’re guarding callings.
We’re training warriors.

“Train up a child in the way he should go [according to his individual gift], and when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Proverbs 22:6

What I’m Learning Now:

  • ⚔️ Teach them to walk in who they were made to be

  • 🔍 Spot their gift early (Romans 12:6–8)

  • 🛡 Protect it from wounding (Psalm 139)

  • 🌱 Cultivate it for the Kingdom (1 Timothy 4:14)

Because when each of us brings our part, the full beauty of God is revealed.

👣 Let’s Raise a Generation That Stands

  • 💪 Raise them in Faith

  • 🔥 Raise them in Identity

  • 🕊 Raise them in Courage

Let’s raise little Priscillas and Pauls who won’t bow to fear — but rise in boldness.


✨ Need Support on This Journey?

I offer 1:1 Kingdom coaching for Christian moms who want to raise their children in faith, identity, and purpose. Whether you're just beginning or looking to go deeper, I walk with you step by step.

I also create faith-based workbooks for:

These tools are designed to help you nurture your child’s spiritual gift with confidence and clarity.


💬 Let’s Talk: What Gift Do You See in Your Child?

I’d love to pray with you.
Contact me at
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What gift do you think God planted in your child?

I come from a family line marked by pain, abuse, and witchcraft — but I’ve seen what happens when the Holy Spirit enters a story. I’ve seen God restore what was broken — in my life, and in my family.
That’s why I became a certified Christian coach.
Not to "fix" your child — but to walk alongside you with grace, discernment, and fire.
Your child will be seen, heard, and loved.
And you, the parent, will feel supported every step of the way.

Amazing Tropical Life

I come from a family line marked by pain, abuse, and witchcraft — but I’ve seen what happens when the Holy Spirit enters a story. I’ve seen God restore what was broken — in my life, and in my family. That’s why I became a certified Christian coach. Not to "fix" your child — but to walk alongside you with grace, discernment, and fire. Your child will be seen, heard, and loved. And you, the parent, will feel supported every step of the way.

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